IN and OUT,

We human tend to feel unsatisfied with whatever we have, whatever we get, and whatever given to us. Everything seems to be incompatible with and insufficient to our needs. It is too hard to be thankful, grateful, even to appreciate what we have. even for a time we are in difficulties we still keep complaint almost about everything. come on, be grateful, appreciate whatever we have. Believe that whatever we get currently is the best for us. Yeah, we have to strive for the best, to gain the biggest reward in our life, to satisfy ourselves, but whenever we lose, whenever we have to backoff, try to look not just to the direct goal, look around the corner, find the greatest thing that we have gain from it. we lose in certain thing, but we gain something. we might lose in competition, but we gain friendship and love. we might lose power, but we dignity, we might lose friends, but we gain true friend. for every single thing that happen to us, there is always hidden benefit with it. it depends on us, how to accept things, interpreted it, respond to it and react. we make things good, we make things bad. 

during ethic class last week, i learned that if we want good things in our life, open our grasp, let off what we have to gain what we need and what we want. how can we get something when he hold everything so tight, unable to catch whatever coming to us. then, open our grasp to catch it, and let off what need to get off.